Duuuuuuudddeeeee....so I had a teensy weensy taste of what it is like to be a single mom and I gotta tell ya, it is some seriously tough work. Cory went out of town for like 2 days. By the time he came back I was a) exhausted and b) so thrilled that I'm lucky enough to have a dependable partner to help me raise my kid(s).
So here's the routine: get up at 6, shower, get dressed, feed myself, feed the dog, pack josies lunch (little portions of carrots/cheese/pasta/whatever into tiny tupperwares, thermos of milk, snacks), diaper bag full of diapers/wipes/spare clothes (she came home naked a couple of weeks ago), go upstairs, change josie, get her dressed, find shoes, get her fed (time permitting, if not pour some milk for the car ride), get her, lunch, blanket, favorite bear plus me and my stuff (purse, work from the night before, my lunch, etc) into the car, drive to daycare by 7:30, drop her with people, give instructions, report on poops/other diapers from the morning, sneak out so she doesn't fall apart (not for her, for me! i can't stand to leave her when she's crying, there is just something about my cells that won't physically let me do it), drive to work, work like a madwoman all day, try to remember to eat lunch, pack up work to do that night, make all the calls and do all the in office stuff that has to get done by then, get in the car, back to daycare, get a report from the people there who have spent all day with your child and make a beautiful effort to make you feel like you had a part in it, give you the food/poop/nap report (critical!), take her home, try to get her to interact with you when clearly she spent all her juice at daycare and just needs some downtime and has no energy at all and doesn't find you altogether very interesting, put her to bed, downstairs, clean up the kitchen from her dinner, wash all the tupperware thingys, have a bit to eat for dinner, upstairs, log on to the computer, work till 11, go to bed.
Wake up, repeat.
It's just insane. I don't know how people do it. So give it up for the single mamas.